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Mission
It is my fervent hope that my family’s stories will bring attention to polycystic kidney disease (PKD) and the progress made in the world of dialysis and transplantation during my lifetime. I honor those who have lost their battle with PKD; they are some of the people I loved most. Their courage, faith and sense of humor taught me great lessons. Each of them contributed to where we are today. We have come so far in my lifetime, and yet we have far to go. I hope to inspire, encourage and, most of all, remind us to cherish life....
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About Suzanne
Suzanne Ruff comes from a family that has been plagued by kidney disease for generations. In her lifetime, she has lost her mother, several aunts and uncles and cousins to Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD), the most common of all life-threatening genetic diseases. Both of her sisters inherited the disease. She did not. When her younger sister fell ill shortly after their mother’s death in 2003, Ruff decided to do something about it. She had always been afraid of doctors and needles, but says with God’s help she found the courage to save JoAnn’s life by donating a kidney. In the months leading up to the surgery, which took place on Oct. 19, 2004, Ruff spent a lot of time journaling, and published a book based on her notes and memories. Her hope is that The Reluctant Donor (Beaver’s Pond Press, April 2010, $14.95) will find its way into the hands of others who are facing a difficult life-and-death decision, and help them find the courage they need to get through it. Her family has been active with the Polycystic Kidney Disease Foundation since its founding days in 1982. The PKD Foundation is a source of information for newly diagnosed patients with PKD and helps fund research to find a cure. She is a member of AAKP, too. Suzanne is also a volunteer and speaker to raise awareness about organ donation and to fight to find a cure for polycystic kidney disease. She has volunteered for Translife, Lifeshare of the Carolinas and LifeSource, the non-profit organizations dedicated to saving lives through organ and tissue donation in the Upper Midwest, and a volunteer for the National Kidney Association (NKF). She is on the...
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About The Reluctant Donor
AN EXCERPT FROM THE RELUCTANT DONOR: (NOW AN EBOOK) I threw the kickboard aside and resumed my swimming. I coughed up water because I was crying again. Good, I thought grimly. Maybe I will drown and then I won’t have to give her a kidney. Serves you right if you drown, you stupid fool, I told myself. You know you won’t give her a kidney. That’s it! JoAnn knows me. She will understand. I can get out of it! I gave her false hope, and I was sorry, but JoAnn knows what a coward I am. She would realize how frightened I was of hospitals, blood and guts. I shivered in the pool just thinking of the smell of illness. I can’t have surgery – elective surgery. Yeah, maybe I’d have to have surgery if I ruptured an appendix, but then I’d be in pain so I wouldn’t know the difference. Surgery means risk to me. I don’t take risks. And, I’m not obligated because I can’t give away a part of myself. And, I bet the doctors will not allow it with our family history of PKD. Whew – I’ll be able to get out of it. She can put her name on the waiting list for a transplant. WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT THE RELUCTANT DONOR: “If you want to be inspired, simply turn the page.” -Sanjay Gupta, MD, CNN Chief Medical Correspondent “More than ever, it seems we are looking for hope. We look for hope in our families, at our...
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